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Learning How to Find Happiness
Become the Happy Happiness is a misunderstood emotion that seems impossible to achieve. Whenever someone has asked me what I want to be when I am older, the first thought that comes to mind is, “I just want to be happy.” The problem with this, however, is I can’t just magically be happy one day. I could have the perfect life with my perfect family, my perfect house, and my perfect job, but I still wouldn’t be happy until I found happiness within. While external factors can contribute to your happiness, relying solely on them can be risky. By finding happiness within yourself, you cultivate a strong foundation of well-being…
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Breaking The Cycle of Generational Habits
“One believes things because one has been conditioned to believe them.” – Adlous Huxley, Brave New World [Goodreads] Am I my parents’ daughter? What does that even mean? Rewriting the Narrative Being my parents' daughter meant Following in my father's footsteps,While being the threads That held my family together. It meant believing in my parents’ beliefs, And acting in a way that they saw fit.Conformity to a traditional mindset, Even if it made me bitter and unhappy. But, it does not mean that anymore. Not to me, anyway. I am my father’s way of thinking, my mother’s way of loving. Standing alone, one without the other,Afraid of the thoughts of…
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Motivation for Self-Improvement: Proven Tips to Unlock Your Potential
In the journey of life, we often find ourselves at a crossroads, unsure of which path to take. We know we want to grow, improve, and reach new heights, but the motivation to do so can sometimes be elusive. This struggle is as universal as humanity itself, and we will explore this shared experience in this article. Imagine standing at the base of a mountain, gazing up at the peak. You know that reaching the top will offer an unparalleled view and a sense of accomplishment, but the climb seems daunting. This is a metaphor for self-improvement. We all have mountains to climb, and finding the motivation to start the…
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Advice to My Younger Self
What Advice Would You Give to Your Younger Self? A boy cannot fulfill you. Giving him access to your body will only make you feel worse about yourself. It will not make him care about you. You are simply a vessel to fulfill his needs, and you should NOT lower yourself to put up with that. You should not be okay with that. You deserve to be treated with so much love and respect, but allowing guys to walk all over you attracts like-minded, similar men. You attract what you act like you deserve. Allowing yourself to be treated a certain way by others will attract individuals who behave in…
