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Breaking Free: A Learning Lesson on Overcoming Toxic Cycles
Life has a way of humbling us, bringing us back to ourselves when we’ve strayed too far. I’ve recently come to the end of another toxic cycle, and it’s taught me more about myself than I ever imagined. In breaking free, I’ve realized that growth isn’t about fixing what’s broken but about rediscovering who we’re meant to be. If you’ve ever found yourself trapped in patterns that no longer serve you, this lesson is for you. The Power of Small Steps Every time I emerge from a cycle, I return to the dreams I once pushed aside. This time, instead of talking about the things I need to do, I’ve…
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Breaking Free: Ending the Cycle of Toxic Relationships
There’s a unique pain in realizing you’ve stayed too long in a place that wasn’t good for you—a relationship, a habit, or a pattern that kept you stuck. For me, it was a toxic cycle in a relationship where I lost sight of myself. I poured everything into someone else, neglecting my goals, dreams, and self-worth. But I’ve learned that every ending, no matter how painful, is an opportunity for growth. This post isn’t just about the heartbreak of letting go; it’s about the lessons I’ve learned in breaking free. Recognizing the Pattern Looking back, I see how I avoided my responsibilities and goals by investing all my energy into…
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Living in God’s Truth: Overcoming Fear and Embracing His Love
For much of my life, I’ve been stuck in my head—worrying about things that might never happen, consumed by the “what-ifs” of the future. Instead of taking action and living in the present, I allowed fear and overthinking to paralyze me. For months, God had been nudging me to open my Bible to the Book of Matthew, but I resisted. Today, I finally listened. I found the passage He wanted me to read: Matthew 6:25-34, which ends with this powerful reminder:“But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about…
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Set Free in My Day-to-Day Life
What Does It Mean to Truly Set Yourself Free? Set Yourself Free To Find Yourself A Personal Experience AB For the longest time, I thought I was set free, but when I reflected on the way I lived and the decisions I made, I realized that I was anything but free. Repeatedly, I made decisions based on what others wanted me to do, not what would make me happy—not what I truly wanted to do. Once I realized that, I began to make decisions for myself. The process was challenging. It was daunting, but it changed my life for the better. … I realized that I was anything but free. AB…
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Learning to Love Yourself
Self-love is the essential practice of valuing and caring for oneself, involving kindness, respect, and compassion. It's about acknowledging your worth despite imperfections. Recognizing the need for self-love and taking actionable steps, such as self-affirmation, setting boundaries, and practicing self-care, fosters self-esteem and can transform one's life. It's a progressive journey, not a one-time event, demanding persistence and commitment for sustained happiness and fulfillment.
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By My Side – Discovering God
The first time I truly felt God’s presence in my life was during my first Kairos. That weekend made me realize that God had been with me since the beginning, and he was patient and forgiving. Throughout my life, I chose to follow a path filled with boys who took advantage of me, friends who did not value me, and drugs and alcohol that numbed the pain. Despite this, God waited for me. I had to discover Him when I was finally ready, but once I did, it did not last. My Jesus high ended almost immediately after Kairos because my parents were not a part of this journey. I…
