Personal Growth & Mindset

Advice to My Younger Self

What Advice Would You Give to Your Younger Self?

A boy cannot fulfill you. Giving him access to your body will only make you feel worse about yourself. It will not make him care about you. You are simply a vessel to fulfill his needs, and you should NOT lower yourself to put up with that. You should not be okay with that.



You deserve to be treated with so much love and respect, but allowing guys to walk all over you attracts like-minded, similar men.



You attract what you act like you deserve. Allowing yourself to be treated a certain way by others will attract individuals who behave in that way. Treat yourself like you matter, and others will show you that you do.


Stop accepting minimal to no effort from guys. You don’t want a guy like that. He’ll never change his actions for you. Allow men into your life who know how amazing you are and treat you as such.


You want a guy who knows what he has and acts like he’s afraid to lose it. Someone who wants to do life with you and can’t bear the thought of letting you go.

Authentically, AB

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